The Last Days/What Does End-of-Life Look like, Really?
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We always knew what we wanted for her . . . and so we let her go.

Our newborn’s end of life: “his life was short, beautiful, what it was meant to be.”

A quiet end to my son’s life

Extubating my son: “My heart wanted a few more years but he was so tired and I had to accept that. I didn’t want him to suffer anymore.”

Avoiding a traumatic medical death: Learning our baby could not tolerate intubation and deciding he would not have it again.

The day he died, we weren’t expecting it.

Staying with the body: Mom didn’t feel like she needed to be in there with him; Dad did.

Being the Aunt: Staying with his body.

Our son’s last day: “We knew we had done everything possible for him. It was right, despite how wrong it was.”

Parenting a Medically Complex Child: My son's peaceful end-of-life

Peeling things back at the end is tough. It’s so tangible in terms of what it reflects.

Dialing back feeding at the end: looking for indications that the body isn’t tolerating feeds.

How much longer is this going to take? I felt guilty for feeling I couldn’t deal with weeks of her struggle.

I did feel a sense of relief after the kids died. They were so sick.

I remember his breathing but I don’t remember other stuff.

How long was this part of the journey going to take?

A child can be comfortable right to the end.

You are capable of seeing this through.

What we can expect in the final days.

We encourage holding the child.

I wasn’t afraid because I’m a planner

His final moment was so peaceful and it was perfect for him.

The last 24 hours: We were not ready for it. “Wait a minute, we’re off script.”

It was beautiful.

The last hour of Talon's life, and letting go.
